“Your essentially saying no voluntary relationship in which someone is being mistreated is immoral.That’s absurd.”
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"Answer my questions. How can someone be mistreated when they ask to be treated a particular way?
I’m making a simple praxeological insight. People act rationally."
"…given the circumstances, yes. It doesn’t follow that people can act immorally, even though people put up with it. "
“What does this mean? Your reply is not clear.”
That people act using means to achieve ends, within given circumstances. Yes, that’s the ultimate datum of praxeology. That is completely correct.
It doesn’t follow that ‘putting up with something’ is the same as ‘asking to be treated in a particular way’. Praxeology is irrelevant for thymology, but it’s thymology that is relevant here. It’s not that hard to understand, we do it all the time. The reasons why people are in a certain voluntary relationship matter for moral philosophy. It’s not ‘just’ praxeology: ‘ow, the wife stays with her abusive husband, so what the husband does, is perfectly morally oke!’ There is no real requirement for legal action, but there is room for moral condemnation. The wife (in this example) wants to be treated differently, but sees no other way, so just settles for the end and the means she sees fit, given her circumstances. Nobody is denying that she’s acting ‘praxeological’. (It’s impossible to act ‘non-praxeological’, so that wouldn’t make any sense.) Just because the husband can get away with his behavior, because the wife sees no real possibility otherwise, doesn’t follow that he’s not being immoral.
Obviously, husband and wife can be interchangeable. Abusive wives also exist. I’m just illustrating a point of the possibility of someone who in a praxeological sense chooses for a certain situation, but where there is still immoral behavior.
But, the way you explain your position, I would have to conclude that this husband is not engaging in immoral behavior against the wife, because th wife chooses to stay with her husband. If that is not your opinion, please be more clear with what you mean.