Indeed. You’ve fabricated this question about defining an obvious line of when a child’s rights are violated. It is entirely a strawman design to allegedly prove a point. It is a question you constructed which supposedly disproves the “Guardianship” camp. The question does not prove or disprove your thesis however. What it does prove though is that you subscribe to a dichotomy that children’s rights can either be violated or that they cannot, by either existing or not. The belief that there is a distinct line in every child related action which can be defined as a violation of rights or not.
Inter-human relations are not so clearly defined so it seems a double standard that you expect inter-human-child relations to be so clearly defined.
Your whole argument fumbles however when the logical application of property rules are applied to human beings. Such is, the right to homestead non-rational agents by your criteria.
First the criteria is arbitrary, and homesteading people is arbitrary. Your mindset in this regard seems primitive and you are so stubborn about the discussion you seem unwillingly to see how other alternative views may accommodate you further in your personal conflicts about raising children.
The truth of the matter is your entire premise is built apon an assertion. You may call it axiomatic but it is simply an opinion you hold. It is not self evident as Human Action is. It is simply an assertion, that you will be incapable of proving to be correct logically. Since, in this regard, you desire to work outside of the realm of logic. I cannot continue to debate it.
The truth is I do not have the logical aptitude at defending the “Guardianship” concept and I don’t even know if that is the correct answer. I am not stuck on this notion that there is a single absolute in the way of raising children. Still I know that your entire premise is just as much of an assertion as mine. So for the reasons I cannot argue my own assertion, I cannot accept yours. Both ours are simply assertions, and I would prefer to live in a world where chiildren are respected. Disciplined, and addressed accordingly as children yes, but respected and loved.
Despite your warm heart your premise paves the path of a world where humans can be discarded proprerty and dealt with as much. You cannot claim that children are property, by your premise, without also accepting that various mental states of humans of all ages could be subject to homesteading as property.
Further more your criteria for a rational-agent is entirely arbitrary as man has not the tools for measuring ones competency of various sorts. Modern testing is some of the most arbitrary testing around. There are 8 year olds who are more adept than 23 year olds. There are 40 year old adults who have less mental, and responsible capacity than their 18 year old cousins. Not to say that those 40 year olds are not intelligent and do not offer something of value under the division of labor, but that they were raised fostered under a different environment.
If we hold your premise as a truism our decisions of who is and who is not homesteadable becomes entirely arbitrary. It also becomes un-economical if alleged non-rational agents are removed from the division of labor.
So while I may not be able to argue much more for the “Guardianship” camp, I can at least say that your premise fails far more in nearly all aspects. In definition, and in practice. Your whole argument makes little sense.
I only hope you understand my concerns about your thesis and would be willing to address them. Though I have asked about these concerns numerous times and you have been quick to skip them.