You would resent you friend if he didn’t lend you money? Seriously?
If I was losing my house to the bank for a couple of grands which I would receive within a month, he had the money sitting around and didn’t give it to me? Would you not resent him, seriously?
I have a different relationship with my friends than I do with my bank. Don’t you? That property is privately owned has nothing to do with the difference.
See, we agree. The problem is that, while you can clearly ‘handle’ having different relation, most people cannot, and would like to be treated by the bank as they would by a friend. Do not take your easiness on this matetr lightly, forits appearently a matter of greta uneasiness fopr most people.
Around 1000 BC, rules to live by were carved into a couple of tablets by a Jewish guy who was a member of tribe wandering through the desert. Among those rules, roughly translated:
You shall not kill, You shall not steal, You shall not covet anything that belongs to your neighbor.
And when he ordered the very same folks not to melt the jewels they had into whatever form they liked, on pain of great punishment, was this included in his private property inspiration?
But even taking his words at face value, if you shall not covet other people’s stuff, it means that you cannot exchange, which was indeed the case for most societies back then. The few things that where yours where yours forever, and you could not exchange them. Heck, they even buried you with your stuff!
So, covet whatever you like but do not steal, this would be private property. Do not covet other people’s stuff would seem some Buddhist acetic and/or caste system stuff.
Look, I’d like for an idyllic private property society to have existed in the past. The simple fact is that it didn’t, and it still doesn’t. But again, if you can find any counterexample, real ones please, I’ll take everything back.