This is a terrible analogy.
The state does not constantly utilize actual physical force akin to constant machine gun fire to reinforce it’s existence. If it did, it would be far more popular of an idea amid citizens to overthrow or resist outright tyranny.
However, you might eventually see this as the middle classes ( lower, upper; yes even the maligned Tea Partiers are included in this) become more & more aware of how screwed they are becoming from the Entitlement (State) Society.
Grudge the anti-entitlement actors (which include statists, but are not limited to) all you want for not being anarchistic or purely libertarian, but it would be far more effective to fight the state when there is less entitlements being funded by less sapping upon incomes.
Case in point, secession & the reduction of a federal government, where the focus of activism would become more decentralized & more asymmetrically active, & ,more likely, effective, on a smaller state level across various states that are largley ignoring a, at some point, bankrupt or irrelevant federal bureaucracy.
The threat of coercion does not equal coercion until it is actually utilized, & the inability to see state coercion as consequentially ineffective or wrong is what prevents the monopoly design from being questioned, let alone challenged, resisted, or out competed by non-coercive competitors.
Yes, you can say but if one threatens coercion, it means they would use it, until you realize this would include superficial remarks like “I’m going to kill you” said to your friends out of annoyance, but it never actually occurs.
Threat of coercion is a social reality until it is acted upon in reality by agents & has measurable consequences. It would be highly inefficient for the state to constantly back-up every instance where coercion could be used, & relying upon popular compliance & consent largely fills in this gap where physical coercion is not required by the state (I’ve always thought this was obvious by now, but oh well).