@Bert: Well, I’d like to see some specific instances of judges blaming the victim in rape cases and some statistics showing this is actually a serious problem (i.e. not just some redneck podunk asshole judge being his asshole-y self).
“Learned negative behavior that’s reinforced through language;”
You have to be kidding me. So you see no connection between, say, the animal reproductive instinct and rape??
As for the tribal porn thing, again, you have to be kidding me… words fail.
“No, blaming the victim is blaming the victim, and telling the victim to adjust their behavior, and not the negative behavior of those with sexist views is only accepting the status quo “as is”.”
No, common sense advice is common sense advice. If you’re a woman walking alone in an unknown area at night, cover up and keep moving as quickly as you can. A friend of mine was nearly raped by a gas station attendant after stopping for gas while on a business trip. Her crime? Running out of gas in an unknown, isolated part of town, after dark. Very fortunately for her, a good Samaritan happened by and warded off the would-be rapist. The world is a very dangerous place. This braindead bourgeois mentality that “I can walk wherever I want, whenever I want, however I want” is puerile and doubtless encourages many young women to engage in reckless behavior that needlessly endangers themselves.
“A majority of cases of rape and molestation are done to those who were not in dangerous situations, they were done in “normal” circumstances. To assume that the majority of rapes occured because there was already a situation of risk involved is naive and insulting.”
I assumed no such thing. I’m simply pointing out that the world is a dangerous place. In the US, the last thing we need is less taking of responsibility for oneself.
You (women) need to take responsibility for your own safety, particularly in this American culture where you’re expected not to ask your father or husband to share in the costs of providing for you and protecting you. And, yes, that includes character assessment of the men you are around and the situations you place yourself in. How you dress is, of course, your choice, but if you are dressed provocatively, this reduces the number of places you can safely go.
Clayton -