Well, the socialists have long been co-opting the language of genuine well-being and twisting it around to collectivist ends. It is unavoidable that an honest name for what I have in mind would collide with the distorted language of the collectivists.
The difference, of course, is that I have in mind the well-being of the individual, not of some imaginary entity, such as “the collective.”
Here’s an example of the kind of moral instruction that I think could be profitably spread. This is more negative (what to avoid, protect yourself against) than positive.
We’ve all seen the following “joke” a thousand times in TV, movies, even from talks show hosts and news broadcasters:
It really isn’t a joke, actually. It can be looked at several different ways. Insomuch as Hollywood is a conduit for messages the Establishment want to convey to the general public, it is a conscientious reinforcement of a reasonable fear. Prison rape is widespread and anyone who isn’t part of a gang is at much greater risk of being victimized. The nature of the victimization is far worse than any kind of crime you could be subjected to outside of prison because there is no legal recourse and victimization - once it begins - tends to be perpetual for the duration of the prison sentence. So, they can’t burn us at the stake or jab our eyes out with hot pokers but they can send us to prison for years where they will turn a blind eye while we are raped.
But why do people laugh at this “joke”. This trope is as reliable as the swift kick in the nuts for getting a laugh from audiences. This leads me to the other way to look at it - this laughter can also be thought of as the uneasy laughter of commiserating potential-victims who understand that they or a loved-one could be subjected to this treatment if they happened to be falsely accused and very unfortunate circumstances led to their conviction and sentencing to prison.
A final way to look at it - unfortuantely, this is probably the most factual - is that it appeals to our capacity for schadenfreude - taking pleasure in the misery of others. Stocks, dunce caps, drunkards-barrels, heretics garments and other forms of public humiliation have been employed as punishments by the authorities in times past. Why do such punishments work? In part, they work because of the participation of the general public in heaping scorn upon those who have been so marked by the authorities. So, this dark capacity for real schadenfreude is the very thing being appealed to by the “go to prison and get raped for the rest of your life” trope.
I think it is important to note who are the primary targets of the trope: poor, non-criminal, young men. It is the poor who are targeted because they are more likely than others to be arrested, the non-criminal or petty criminal because they are the ones who are less likely to be members of gangs and, therefore, are the primary victims of prison rapes. And it is men because very few women get arrested or go to prison by comparison to men.
The trope itself adds a booster effect to the victimization. Imagine, for a moment, being raped by a ruthless prison thug with a shiv stuck to your jugular - it’s a terrible thought, isn’t it? But now imagine that being done to you with millions of people standing around, watching, laughing. Even worse. And that’s exactly what this trope does. It converts a real crime that tens of thousands of men (and some women, too) are victimized by into a joke - we all know that it’s actually happening but instead of doing something to stop it, we simply laugh.
So, what are some steps we can take in response to this sick and disgusting trope? First, if you are a young, non-criminal man below the line of comfortable, middle-class income, refuse to be intimidated by this trope - avoid situations where you are likely to be arrested (thus being put at risk of being raped in prison) but otherwise dispel these veiled threats from your mind. Spit on the threat for the disgusting thing that it is. Even if you’re not one of those in the targeted group, you can still express your own moral and aesthetic views on its use in culture. Second, simply note that it’s not actually funny in the vast majority of cases where it is used. It’s just lazy writing - cheap laughs bought on a morally questionable basis. Third, note that taking pleasure in the misery of others - even the psychological misery inflicted through veiled threats - is immoral. Refuse to participate. Raise the issue with your friends and point out the fact that prison rape is a fact, that people who are innocent are at much greater risk of being raped in prison than people who are actually guilty and that the “joke” is simply barbaric and disgusting.
This is an example of the kind of thing that I think people really need to hear. The best way for them to hear is to simply start un-hearing the bad stuff to begin with (supplant it with good things instead, such as healthy social interaction in a community setting) but direct confrontation of the filth within the culture is also critical.
Clayton -