Need Help Refuting the "Government is Us" Fallacy

I’m sick of hearing the Government is Us phrase. I know it’s nonsense but I’d like to study up on it. Can anyone point me to articles or books (by Mises, Rothbard, Ron Paul, or any other great libertarians) that annihilate this fallacy?

http://mises.org/pdf/anatomy.pdf

Thanks! I’ll read it shortly- looks good already.