The glorification of war should never be acceptable. Glorification of service to the State is more what Veteran’s Day is all about.
I would say that if you have contempt for veterans over the NAP, then you probably also hold similar contempt to over 90% of the population who also violate the NAP and do so more regularly than veterans.
You might also hold some form of contempt over those who do follow the NAP, but have yet been unable to convince others to embrace it due to lack of effort.
That means there are probably less than 1% or perhaps a handful of people who follow the NAP and actively promote it.
Veterans are the cogs in the machine of the State who on occassion commit aggression via direct force - although a lot of veterans aren’t combat-oriented and fill a support role. Some, who the closest they came to harm was a paper cut, are honored side-by-side with those who lost a limb protecting their buddies.
The vast majority of others in the machine commit their aggression via coercion or supporting others who use force or coercion. Some might claim all taxpayers fit into this category.
Now on the human level, sympathizing with those who’ve been through the horrors of war is normal. In a very real sense the individual is a victim of State war whether they serve voluntarily or not. And among a group of soldiers who have come together to survive the ordeal, the interpersonal bonds are admirable. But not all veterans have this experience, so each individual may be respected not because they were veterans, but because of how they acted given the situation.
I think blanket statements that lump all who serve the State in a military capacity and honors them, shows great disrespect for the individual actions of those who did indeed act with honor. The same goes for blanket statements against veterans.
Essentially, the recognition given on Veteran’s Day is more about State and State War glorification than honoring the individual actions of those deserving such respect. It’s also become a way for people to justify their own acts of aggression via coercion or support of force or coercion, and to feel good about themselves. That’s why you have all the slogans: “Support the Troop”, “They Died for Your Freedom”, etc. It’s a great big advertisement campaign to glorify the State through war and feel good about it. Pretty sick stuff, if you ask me.